Here’s something interesting: 97% of Americans consider themselves patriotic, yet 70% think today’s children are less so than previous generations. (That’s per the National Museum of Patriotism in Atlanta.)
So what is patriotism, anyway? When we were young, patriotism meant reciting the Pledge of Allegiance in school. Now things aren’t so clear. But there are still lots of ways to start conversations about why America was founded and what America stands for with your kids or grandkids. And the Fourth is a great time to start. So…
Go for breakfast at Perkins. In most neighborhoods, this restaurant flies the biggest and most impressive American flag. So get up as early as a holiday allows and stand in the parking lot for a while, in the morning light, listening to the fabric snap in the breeze. You can tell the story of Francis Scott Key, or just quiz the kids on what the stars and stripes stand for. Then, once everyone is suitably inspired (or tired), head in and order half blueberry/half strawberry pancakes with a dollop of whipped cream.
Declare your family’s independence. To give your kids a firsthand appreciation for history, tell them you’re seceding from the neighborhood, just like the original 13 colonies did from Mother England. But before you make it official, you’ll need a flag or logo, an anthem, a declaration of independence, and, of course, a secret headquarters to plan it all. Half of high-school seniors lack a basic understanding of American history; this fun exercise will give your kids one.
Create a patriotic playlist. For some rousing picnic entertainment, go on iTunes and download your favorite renditions of America the Beautiful, The Battle Hymn of the Republic, This Land Is Your Land, Anchors Away, When Johnny Comes Marching Home Again, God Bless America, Yankee Doodle…. Chances are, your kids have never heard some of these classics, and their choruses are still so infectious that everyone will be singing them long after the potato salad is gone.
Tuck them in this way. When their eyes get heavy, dig out the camp lantern (or light a candle), pretend the firecrackers outside are British muskets, and read them Paul Revere’s Ride by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. It’s a timeless story of patriotism, plus the poem’s hypnotic rhythm—like hoofbeats through the dark—will lull them to sleep in no time. Make sure to exchange salutes before the lights snap off.
Basically, patriotism is a love of home. And by giving your kids an apple-pie day like this, you’ll have taken a significant step toward instilling it.








